The comfort-first principle in space
Every craft decision in cozy sci-fi should pass the same test as in cozy fantasy: does this maintain or undermine the reader's sense of safety and warmth? This is harder in science fiction than in fantasy because the genre's conventional pleasures include existential stakes, hostile environments, and the vast indifference of the cosmos. Cozy sci-fi has to take those conventional pleasures off the table for its central promise and replace them with different sci-fi pleasures: the wonder of meeting a genuinely strange alien species who turns out to be charming rather than threatening, the satisfaction of an elegant engineering solution to a cozy problem, the specific warmth of a community that has built itself in the cold between stars.